Dilemma - If you are in a Dilemma in any part of your life, Check this out

                       What is pulling you  ?                                                What is holding back ?                                  

Is this something you are familiar with ?

You, your friend or your colleague or your client needs to make a decision that could

irrevocably alter their future for eg change their fortunes in future through a career,

move to another city or start an enterprise. The arguments are evenly balanced for and 

against.

How can you help yourself or others out of their Dilemma?

Look at the picture above, ask yourself or others, what is "pulling you" in one direction 

and what is "holding you" in the other direction.

At a first glance it may look like this is a traditional way of asking what are 

"pros and cons" . The difference is that " What is holding me?" and "What is pulling me?"

are positive questions and reflect a situation with two attractive alternatives.

Once you have distinguished the dilemma , "choose" one of the alternatives !!! You will 

experience a sense of "Freedom"